Sorry Urs can't help you much there, I haven't dated in like almost 5 years! Well I guess that's not true, Jacob and I go out, but it's not the weird trying to find a guy type dating! Just be yourself : ) I really believe you find the best people when you aren't even looking for them at all. You know what I mean? Let them find you : ) Good luck though! I am sure glad I don't have to worry about that stuff anymore : )